You body stiffens and you will scoot and twist your body alignment in awkward positions to make as little contact as possible usually with a “pat pat” on the shoulder.
I have studied how people hug and every now and then when it is someone who is this type of hugger, I will tell them to melt into the hug and take the love being offered. Learning to receive is a hard one for some folks. It is not too long when they are holding out their sweet arms for a hug when I am around them. The best hugs are those that is now over when suddenly you are embraced again because they just want to hug you one more time! It is time to connect with a little more human touch…the great healer. Hugging will lift your life spiritually in ways you never imagined so get busy…ready…set…go hug someone…a pet, a tree. Hold a baby and watch them sleep, rub your dogs ears, put your hand on someones shoulder if you are standing behind them, take someone hand while you talk to them.
The Universe will conspire to send you more opportunities to reach out and touch
and be touched. God will be delighted. Make every day a Hugging Holiday.
~ Lady D ~